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Showing posts with label writer potential. Show all posts
Showing posts with label writer potential. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Atala)

Lust
Lust (Photo credit: Leonard John Matthews)
The Atala is located in the hips. It controls fear and lust.
  • Fear and Lust: want to gain or avoid something. Instinctive. Fear is distress caused by a threat (or perceived threat). Lust – and I'm emphasizing the nonsexual sense because we are talking about your writing potential – is a craving for something. Both are powerful desires for something that can cause you to neglect important activities.
  • Be Reactive: Choose how you react! Starting with fear, are you paralyzed or can you still function? Is the fear reasonable? Since we are talking about fear in regards to writing, maybe it is reasonable but it is still holding you back. Recognizing you are afraid is the first step. The second step is putting words to what you are afraid of. I think that only then can you mount an efficient offense. For lust, is this lust or jealousy? Lust is for a person, object, or abstract without the negative emotions. Is lust for a prize preventing you from moving forward or is does it motivate you? If there are no negative effects on your life, there may be no problem. But if you are neglecting (especially for a long time) other areas of your writing or your life, there needs to be a change.
  • Be Proactive: Change how you act! Target the area of neglect. Set aside time for that activity – as much time as you can so you have time to overcome inner distraction. If you feel you can't write, write down “I can't write because...” Talk about what is distracting you. True, this is not your WIP but it is still writing. You are still practicing writing skills. If the fear or lust is really strong, look for ways to incorporate an aspect of this preoccupation into a main character – or even better, different facets into different characters (desire for social recognition, fear of failure). Then you have the start of a theme and deeper characters. Imbed examples of fear or lust throughout your WIP. If you can, have it affect the important decisions made by your characters. Before you know it, you'll be writing again and processing the emotion.

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Muladhara)

English: Muladhara chakra
English: Muladhara chakra (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The Muladhara is at the base of the spine. Awakening begins here for every other major chakra point.
  • Physical Nature: You are human. You have a physical body. You know all this. Because the health of your body affects your mental state, your memory, your creativity, and your longevity, you need to take care of it. When you neglect your body, these other areas suffer. We know this, too, but we are all neglectful from time to time.
  • Physical health: How seriously do you take your physical health? For many, the answer is “not very, but I know I should”. Sleeping regular hours is important. Sleeping enough hours (enough for you) is important. Eating the right foods is important. Eating the right amount of food is important. Exercise is important. Different types of exercise have different benefits. To unleash your potential as a writer, you need to juggle all this, along with your writing and the rest of your life. I recommend one goal a month with some sort of accountability program. It is possible to do most of this most of the time. If you have a physical condition (and mood disorders are included in this category) then it becomes even more important.
  • Mental health: How seriously do you take your mental health? For the neuro-typical person, mental health is often neglected. Most of the chakra articles touch on healthy (and unhealthy) mental states. But something that was only implied in all those articles is the importance of being “grounded”. This requires awareness and comfort with yourself, your world, and your writing. Some increasingly popular ways to “ground” are meditation, yoga, and certain marital arts such as tai chi.



Tuesday, May 14, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Vitala)

Angry Penguin
Angry Penguin (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The Vitala is found in the thighs. It controls anger and resentment.
  • Anger and Resentment: Both anger and resentment come from the feeling of being wronged. Anger is more “in the moment” while resentment simmers. For me at least, I feel anger and resentment towards myself more often than towards other people. I have strong feelings about how I should act, the amount and quality of my writing, my (hoped) degree of professionalism, the list goes on. When I don't meet my standards, I get angry at myself. But we get angry and resentful of others, too. People who don't agree with our perceptions, who criticize and doubt, who don't meet out expectations. How do we fight anger and resentment?
  • Be Reactive: Choose how you react! Question your response. How were you wronged? Is the person actually wrong or simply wrong in the way the belief/claim was expressed (a different sort of wrong)? How would you have said it? Remember that however they said it, they voiced an opinion, not an unalterable truth. You do not have to agree with them! You know that their different opinion does not make them bad people.
  • Be Proactive: Change how you act! Most people would agree that lashing out is bad but that does not mean that you cannot express your anger or resentment. Find a productive way to express your belief that they are wrong. Back up your argument with reasons. Be polite and do not confront the person if you hope to change their minds. If it was partly the way they said something that made you angry, it is fine to say so, especially if you suggest another way they could say it. They may not have meant to be rude and simply spoke the only way they knew how to speak. Maybe you can help them avoid a repeat of the mistake.

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Swadhisthana)

Swadhisthana chakra is shown as having six pet...
Swadhisthana chakra is shown as having six petals, bearing the Sanskrit letters ba, bha, ma, ya, ra, and la. The seed sound in the centre is vam. The tattwa for the element of Water is shown as a silver crescent. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The Swadhisthana is located inside the tailbone. The word means “one's own abode”, where your dormant potentials and karmas sleep. Emotions can be tamed or freed here. It is a place of choices.
  • Potential: What do you think limits your potential? There are many areas of writing potential. A few are voice, style, skill, professionalism, morality, quality, and how prolific you are.
  • Tamed: What needs to be tamed for you to unleash your potential? I think everyone has emotions and behaviors that hold us back from our full potential. Some are situational and some are part of our personalities. Negative emotions and destructive behaviors can be easy to recognize but difficult to fix. When I tackle one of these, I find it helpful to make a plan and be accountable to someone for it. Yes, it may be embarrassing to admit these weaknesses but a cheerleader and someone you are accountable to can make the attempt more likely to succeed.
  • Freed: What needs to be freed for you to unleash your potential? These are inhibitions on positive aspects such as creativity, joy, and being true to yourself. I personally find this the more difficult change to make in my life. There is so little concrete advice out there and a great deal of abstracts. It requires a very different mind-set to nurture instead of attack and relax instead of be on guard. Personally, I find the Tao te Ching helpful but it is very abstract.

  • The Light Side and Dark Side of Writing (An Introduction) (dragonplume.wordpress.com)
  • The Tao Te Ching: An Introduction (beyondthedream.co.uk)
  • Find Your Truth - The Taoist Teaching of 'Te' (wakingtimes.com)
  • Beyond the Tao Te Ching (endlesslightandlove.com)

Monday, May 13, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Sutala)

Iconic Emotions: Jealous
Iconic Emotions: Jealous (Photo credit: Samit Roy)
Sutala. Located in the knees, it governs jealousy.

  • Jealousy:
    Jealousy is directed at another person who has something you want.
    The negative aspects of the emotion are more complicated, but that
    is its two core components.
  • Be Reactive:
    Choose how you react! First consider the inner element: what you
    want. What are you jealous
    of?
    This will identify your need. Then consider the target of your
    jealousy. Why are you jealous of
    that
    person when he or she is not the only one with that
    success/object/etc? Answering this question will probably reveal
    that this person has several attributes or possessions that you want
    – not just one.
  • Be
    Proactive
    :
    Change how you act! Feeling jealous and acting jealous are two
    different things, but why do either if you don't have to? You know
    it isn't the other person's fault and you know not to take it out on
    him/her. Look at this as a challenge to you to be the next (or
    tenth) person to earn that achievement. If you want it enough to be
    jealous, then it surely is worth working hard for. Then people can
    be jealous of you! (Just joking, really!)

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Manipura)

Manipura chakra
Manipura chakra (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Manipura means “city of jewels”. It is found in the solar plexus.
  • Intent: What are your goals for yourself and your writing? Intent is the plan, while motive is the reason behind intent. To have a motive is to have an unmet need. Don't let the unmet need stagnate when you have the ability to create goals that can meet these needs. This is what your characters do; learn from them.
  • Initiative: Goals are not enough to satisfy an unmet need. Just as your story won't move forward until your character acts on his goals, your life won't move forward until you act on your own goals. Initiative demands a certain willingness to take risks because whether you succeed or fail, there will be change. Taking the step forward requires some degree of willpower, dynamism, and energy.
  • Service: What do you contribute through your writing? Writing is a form of communication, even when no one else sees what you write. When writing is shown to others, more than words are shared. Your words have the potential to add to a reader's experience, whether through small pleasures or in life-changing ways. Admittedly, most writing has an effect somewhere in-between on the spectrum of importance to the reader's life. But you do affect others through your writing. Decide how you want to do this and think of ways you can do so more effectively.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Talatala)

Confusion
Confusion (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Talatala. it is located in the calves, and it is the home of prolonged confusion and instinctive wilfulness.
  • Prolonged confusion and Instinctive willfulness: Neither of these states is comfortable. Both create conflict and discord. Both are destructive to your peace of mind and your ability to write. But at the same time, neither is intentional and so they are difficult to fight. They have their source in conflicting needs or wants. This contest can involve another person, but this blog refers to these states as internal.
  • Be Reactive: Choose how you react! The first step is to identify the opposing forces. Usually one side is easy to identify while the other is more difficult to name. Simply putting a face to the two forces can ease some of your tension. Depending on the problem, it may even solve the problem because you may see a clear “right” answer. You have a future and keeping in mind where you want to be in five or twenty years with your writing may also solve the problem. But other times it is not so easy.
  • Be Proactive: Change how you act! Now that you have identified the competing needs, think of how you can meet each need. These paths may seem mutually exclusive. No wonder you are feeling confused or stubborn! List the benefits and drawbacks to following each course of action. Then look at the benefits of both and look for a third course of action that can give you all the benefits. Another person's opinion can be very helpful here because you are in turmoil and may not be able to look at the problem objectively. If a third path cannot be found, go back to the cost-benefit analysis, keeping in mind the personal factors such as conscience and intuition. It may be that you want to take the easier path but the harder path is the one that is more “true to you”.

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Anahata)

Anahata chakra symbolizes the consciousness of...
Anahata chakra symbolizes the consciousness of love, empathy, selflessness and devotion. On the psychic level, this center of force inspires the human being to love, be compassionate, altruistic, devoted and to accept the things that happen in a divine way. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Anahata (heart -level of the spine). unstruck, unhurt, unbeaten. love, empathy, selflessness, and devotion. Compassion, altursism, devotion to and acceptance of things in a divine way. follow your heart-wish (my word), not baser unfulfilled emotions and desires. psychic healing.
  • Heart-wish: What is your dearest wish for your writing? If you could reach your full potential, what would it be like? This is your hope. If you are like me, your writing journey has had unexpected twists and turns, ups and downs. Your perceptions and expectations change. Your idea of your potential changes. But keep the hope and you will not be able to give up forever.
  • Acceptance: Do you have trouble accepting your current ability and state? Change is inevitable so don't beat yourself up so much over your now. Practice and perseverance needs time to deliver the pay-off. As your skill increases, the pay-offs may seem smaller but they are still improvements and the effects are still cumulative. You can back-slide for a while but the effort will pay off. Accept the bad and remind yourself of the good. If there doesn't seem to be much good lying around, find some or create it.
  • Healing: Acceptance is a necessary part of healing. Are you in need of healing? Good! You recognize that a problem exists. That is a great start. Now for the bad news. Healing takes many forms and also takes time. Things might get worse before they get better. But there is always a bottom point and after that you have to improve. When you heal, your writing might be different because of what you have experienced but that is not a bad thing. Your writing is an expression of you and that you may have changed as well. As a person with bipolar, I go through the hurt-heal process X times a year. So I say from experience that if writing is important, you can give up from time to time because you can't “stay given up”. You will write again. But my bipolar has also taught me that the healing comes faster if I don't stop writing completely because for me writing is an essential part of me that needs to be nurtured no matter how I feel that hour or day or month.

Saturday, May 11, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Rasatala)

English: Illustration from Old Deccan Days, a ...
English: Illustration from Old Deccan Days, a book of fairy tales of India. In the story this illustrates, a selfish sparrow delays letting nest-less crows takes shelter. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The Rasatala is in the ankles.It is where selfishness and pure animal nature reside.
  • Selfishness: Selfishness is acting only for your own good, not caring that it hurts others. Sometimes you have to hurt others to be true to yourself. If you hurt, too, then it might not be selfishness. But as a routine thought system, selfishness is definitely frowned on my society because it usually hurts the greater good.
  • Be Reactive: Choose how you react! Question the reason for your action. Will what you write hurt other people? Is it necessary or simply to make yourself feel better? Your motives and your consideration for how your actions affect other people are key to avoiding selfish acts in writing and life.
  • Be Proactive: Change how you act! Remember the Golden Rule and remember how it feels to be hurt. Try to avoid hurting others and you might not be acting selfishly but lovingly (just like with writing rules, there are exceptions to this). Learn to balance your own needs with those of others and try to meet both. This can be hard when finding or making writing time. But remember that other people act selfishly too and if you call them on it, the two of you may be able to find a way to meet both people's needs. Good luck!

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Vishuddah)

[Day 22] {Thing 1}
[Day 22] {Thing 1} (Photo credit: cavale)
I should start by saying I still make lots of mistakes with my writing. In the Vishuddah (found in the throat), there is the potential to learn from your mistakes. I am a great fan of this potential since it gives me hope. The Vishuddah acts as a purification center where “negative experiences are transformed into wisdom and learning” (Wikipedia). Because the point is in the in the throat, this chakra is also associated with hearing and speaking – vital components to learning.
  • Learning: How easily do you learn from your mistakes? People without much inner awareness tend to unknowingly make the same mistakes over and over again – plus new ones. There are many ways to study new material but learning from mistakes can be difficult when defense mechanisms get in the way.
  • Taking in: What attitude to you take towards your mistakes? Maybe you try to justify your mistakes by assigning blame or responsibility. While a little bit of this is perfectly normal, if stop there, you won't really have learned from the bad experience. Don't forget to look at how to fix the mistake. There are so many writing books and on-line resources that you should be able to find a way to fix the mistake. Finding an answer is not enough, then you need to practice the new way of doing things.
  • Sharing: Have you considered sharing what you learn? Doing so connects you with other people and can lead you to finding that you are not so alone. It also helps consolidates in your own mind what you have learned. It is also a way of giving back to the writing community. Of course, just the act of writing is an act of sharing and learning from your mistakes means that your writing will be even more effective.

  • The Light Side and Dark Side of Writing (An Introduction) (dragonplume.wordpress.com)
  • Are you a writing Screw-Up? Five things I learned the Hard Way. (tryingtowriteit.com)
  • throat chakra, where you speak your truth (fundamentalfocusing.com)
  • Activating Your Seven Chakras - For a Better You! (ivonniedulce.wordpress.com)

Friday, May 10, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Mahatala)

My left foot
My left foot (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Mahatala. Located in the feet, this is the dark realm 'without conscience', and inner blindness.
  • Inner blindness and Lack of conscience: This falls right in line with this morning's post. The conscience gives insight to yourself. In regards to your writing and your career, it can help you make choices that makes you comfortable with yourself. This is in dealing with people, the messages your writing sends, your writer image and platform, even the choices your characters (especially “good” and “bad” choices). But your conscience can only help you if you know what you want and how to get it. Knowing that you want something can be frustrating when you don't know how to get it.
  • Be Reactive: Choose how you react! When a choice you are about to make (or have already made) makes you uncomfortable, you may not be following your sense of right. You might be taking the easier path or you might be going with the flow. If you know what you want, then the next step is easy but if you just have this vague uneasiness, what then? If you can take the time to think, think about what you do know is important to you and go from there. There is no easy way to do this. You may need to talk with someone who knows you well.
  • Be Proactive: Change how you act! Sometimes what you think you know about yourself is not accurate – your words and pattern of actions do not line up. You think you believe one thing but you always find a reason to act somehow else. To be true to yourself, something has to change. Maybe the belief, maybe the actions. When it is the actions that need to change, simply a heightened awareness of the problem and people checking on you can be enough. Changing a belief, on the other hand, can be a relief or a struggle. In the end it will happen naturally but if you really feel the belief needs to change, start by making a list of everything you gain by changing your belief and trying to act according to that belief. If this does not work, you may be trying to force yourself into a belief that you think you “should” have but your intuition says is wrong for you as a person.

The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Ajna)

Third eye
Third eye (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Ajna is in the brain, above and between the eyes. The word means “command” or “summoning”. It is also known as the Third Eye chakra, the point of intuition and the three levels of consciousness. It includes what is imagined, thought, and dreamed. Hindi believe that if you develop and trust in your sixth sense, it will lead to fearlessness.
  • Intuition: How do you use intuition in your writing? Intuition is the insight to the outside world. Sometimes we make choices to add or remove something based on gut feeling rather than a clear vision. Chances are you noticed something was right (or wrong) in your WIP even though you can't quite put your finger on it. These urges do not come out of nowhere. You are subconsciously processing.
  • Creativity: What do you do to boost your creativity? Creativity is insight to mental constructs – such as images, relationships, rules. Ideas in the broadest sense. You take standard ideas and put them together in unusual and unexpected ways. You make and follow connections from one idea to the next. This is why concentration is so important. And sleep!
  • Conscience: How do you think about your conscience in relation to your writing? Your conscience is insight into yourself – your beliefs about yourself, mental constructs, and the world around you. In regards to your writing and your writing career, it can guide you. Not the can. You have the freedom of choice, your conscience is a guide that you can follow, inform, or ignore. I suggest taking some time to think about how well your current practices and trajectory match your beliefs.

Thursday, May 9, 2013

The Dark Side: Fight Your Negative Emotions (Patala)

English: Foot print in sand . Photograph from ...
English: Foot print in sand . Photograph from Maldives (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Such a dark subject! Patala is in the soles of feet – in Hindi mythology, the site of these emotions is the closest point in your body to Naraka (Hell). The emotions are malice, torture, and hatred. For me, these emotions are turned inward – at myself. Especially over the small things. And that is the key! They are small, even though they may loo huge at the time. For instance, last week I cut six days of work from my WIP. I should have better skills. I should have seen what I was doing. I really tore myself up over that. I loathed myself for making that mistake. I punished myself. Then I realized what I was doing, that I was doing more harm than good, and “fixed” myself. But sadly, it did not occur to me to do so through a foot massage. It is difficult to feel malicious towards someone while you receive a foot massage!
  • Malice, Torture, Hatred: All these emotions lash out (or in) at someone. The act of lashing out may even be how you first realize what it is you are feeling. These are strong emotions but I'm pretty sure their milder counterparts operate the same. The source of these emotions is typically a perceived threat – threatened beliefs (like about yourself, the other person, or the ways the world works) and purpose (like your intended career) may be the most common reasons for feeling these emotions.
  • Be reactive: Choose how you react! Question your response. Why do I feel this way? What did the person do? Why does that bother me? What is the worst that could happen? If that happened, then what? Repeat this question until you can't think of any more outcomes, then move to the next question. Are these outcomes realistic? If so, are there ways to avoid them? Is lashing out at the other person one of the ways to avoid the feared results?
  • Be proactive: Change how you act! You've started this process in the last step by questioning your feelings. Now change your thoughts. You are thinking in should's. Take some of the pressure of you and the other person by changing “I/he/she should” to “it would be nice if I/he/she”. Just this one little change can start easing the stress of the situation. If you have already acted on your feelings, do damage control. Start with the other person because they are probably still reacting to you and may move to counter your efforts. Then move on to preventing/lessening the actual and potential outcomes that you thought of during the last step.


The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential (Sahasrara)

The Sahasrara, symbolised in Ayyavazhi as 'Lot...
The Sahasrara, symbolised in Ayyavazhi as 'Lotus carrying Namam' (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
An abstract post, but then it is a very abstract subject – especially this chakra. For each topic, I will pose a question, then offer tips on better behaviors and better thoughts.
Everything leads to Sahasrara, the chakra point at the top of your head. This may be why the point represents origins, recognition of truth, and the different levels of concentration.
“At the crown chakra level, the cosmic self opens to the Source, unites with cosmic principles, and governs the entire universe within the body. The crown chakra is associated with universal knowledge and spiritual understanding.” (Michael Nudel and Eva Nudel, Ph.D., Chakras as Psychic and Energetic Centers)

  • Genesis: Where does your need to write come from? Needs are often multifaceted things so don't stop when you come up with a single answer. A need is a recurring craving, a demand. Even if it isn't felt for a time, it always returns. And it is strong. Once you put words to your need you will have a nearly bottomless source of motivation.
  • Truth: What basic truths do you tell through your writing? Your beliefs manifest in what you write, whether you do this consciously or unconsciously. Think about what you believe (and don't believe) so you can send a clear message to the reader. The romance genre is the most obvious example of this but another example is the line between right and wrong. Be aware of your own beliefs and your writing will become more clear. If you have trouble figuring out what you believe, look for patterns of behavior and attitude in your protagonists and antagonists.
  • Concentration: In what settings do you concentrate best? Don't let your mind wander but don't try too hard to push everything else out. You never know what thought will be your next inspiration. Be in the present. Simply acknowledge strong emotions and desires with out dwelling on them.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

The Light Side and Darks Side of Writing (An Introduction)

English: Sapta Chakra, from a Yoga manuscipt i...
English: Sapta Chakra, from a Yoga manuscipt in Braj Bhasa lanaguage with 118 pages. 1899. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
I have been thinking about inner potential as it relates to writing. This is a very broad subject so when I decided to write about it, I cast around for a convenient structure. I settled on chakra. I was introduced to chakra through my martial arts classes, where the points can be used for healing, harm, and release of inner potential. The last – as it applies to writing – is what I will refer to in next seven days.
I've decided to make this into two blog series. In the morning will be “The Light Side: Unleash Your Writing Potential” with each day looking at a different area of inner potential based on a particular major chakra point. I will start in the traditional manner at the top of the head and descend the spine.
In the evening will be “The Dark Side of Writing: Fight Your Negative Emotions” with each day looking at a cluster of negative emotions. These feelings can range from fear to prolonged confusion to self-torture. Yes, those emotions. I think it is a topic seldom talked about but they do occur from time to time in every writer's life. But it is such a dark subject, I want to balance it with something bright like the morning series. And thus the “Light Side” and “Dark Side” post series were born.

A BRIEF BACKGROUND IN CHAKRA
Chakra are fundamental to several Eastern religions. The idea found renewed popularity in the Western New Age movement, which draws heavily on Chinese, Indian, and Tibetan principles and tried to make them compatible with the Western religions. Although I am not Hindi, I am drawing heavily on the psychological aspects of their chakra system for this blog.
Chakra are energy points in the body with physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual functions. Acupressure and acupressure use chakra points for healing. As already mentioned, some styles of martial arts use chakra for healing or harm or self-actualization. The theory behind these practices is that energy flows in channels and chakra are the points where the flow can be disrupted or enhanced. The goal is to open the channels for maximum benefit. Belief systems differ on how to open these chakra and what the effects are.
In the Hindi system, there are seven major chakra that run from the top of the head to the base of the spine. There are many, many minor chakra. In the 'Light Side" series, we start with the crown of the head and work our way down. In the "Dark Side" series, we start with the soles of the feet and work our way up to just below where the major chakra points end.

Monday, May 6, 2013

You Resemble a Nobel Prize Winner

President Bill Clinton with Nelson Mandela, Ju...
President Bill Clinton with Nelson Mandela, July 4 1993. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
 “When a man is denied the right to live the life he believes in, he has no choice but to become an outlaw.”
Nelson Mandela (from Goodreads)
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Nelson Mandela is an activist who became President of South Africa and now is a statesman who has won the Nobel Prize. Relevance? Consider the passion of this man-- the conviction, dedication, and perseverance.
Imagine what you could do if you unleashed the same focus on your writing. He doesn't settle for the society that's out there. Not when he can try to be an agent of change. As a writer, you don't settle for the writing that is already out there. Not when you can write something of your own.
Both Mandela and you are working to change the world. Even (maybe especially) when it means challenging current customs and standards.
Take the plunge and tap your writing potential.