By Alina Chase
My
never-ending attempts to stay focused on priorities (and submit this
blog on time!) led to a brilliant alternative to traditional to-do
lists. Do them backwards.
Traditional agendas sound like a fine way to organize time. But
if you’re as overly optimistic as I am, they’re little more than
guilt-inducing wastes of time. How often do we plan out a day and run
out of time (or steam) long before everything is accomplished, leaving
some important things undone?
The
reason this happens so often—besides allowing ourselves to get
distracted (i.e. procrastinating)—is that it’s impossible to predict or
control how long most to-do’s will take. How long will you wait for the
doctor? Will the one-hour meeting drag on for two hours? What if the
puppy chews up your notes—again?
While
an upside-down to-do list, like its traditional cousin, will not help
us get more done, it will help us re-prioritize as the day plays out so
that what’s most important is not still sitting at the bottom of the
list at bedtime. Some things will not get done. But hopefully they are things we chose not to do, not priorities we ran out of time to do.
Here’s
how it works for me—and it is working, minus the distraction factor. As
I work my way down and up and around the list, end-of-day objectives
remain at the top, and it’s easy to see what can and should be nixed
along the way. And plenty gets nixed.
My afternoon list began with tomorrow morning.
Leave at 0730 for an important meeting. For a stress-free morning, I’ll
need to be up at 6. Then working backwards, tonight I’ll need to wrap
up whatever I’m doing by about 9:30. Set
the alarm before I fall asleep in the recliner. The next item is this
blog, submit not later than 7 p.m. The list also includes: pull weeds,
clean the carport, shop, pick up a library book and make an important
phone call.
(Can
you already see how much of this is probably –not- going to happen by
bedtime? So let’s think of it as a “wish list” instead of a to-do list.)
Here’s
how it looks so far. I stopped at one shop. The 10-minute phone call
lasted an hour. But that’s OK—it was worth the time. I got the book but
also had to stop for gas. Then I got distracted with family-drama emails
that could have waited until after 7. Shame on me! It’s after 6:30 and
the blog’s not finished. Will I feel like weeding and cleaning between 7
and 9:30?
While
this doesn’t seem to be going well, what doesn’t get done wasn’t a
priority. As for remaining to-do’s, if I get this blog submitted on time
and don’t fall asleep before I set the alarm, I will have accomplished
what mattered most. It will have been a fine, stress-free day and as productive as it needed to be.
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